has anyone sent money using paypal, and i mean to a friend or relative, not a company. if so could you tell me how long it took between sending it and them recieving the payment

Very fast

personal experience?

It is verified instantly, but the money won't move for at least 2-3 business days I think is the general time frame.

is THAT from personal experience because he said it hasnt even showed up on his paypal

yes i've sent money that way, it didn't show up on his paypal, but was it verified in yours?

it says its unclaimed. moneys been taken from my card

I've never been the one receiving money via paypal so I am not sure if there is a "claim" button they have to push or what procedures they have to do to procure the money order.

But I wouldn't worry too much about it, there is probably a delay because they have to verify that it isn't fraudulent and what not.

it sends instantly liquid

i second that & yes from personal experience bruh.. u got a confirmation right?