Still exsist Wizz... we still see girls divided into two catergories... we see those that are the good girls... the wife material... who are acceptable because of their sexual behaviour... these are the madonnas (as in the virgin mary)... then we have the whores... the ones that every guy wants... that hawt sexy babe... who they can get their shit on with... who will be that freak that they love to lay with.... but so often these girls are seen only as whores and not wifey material... it is nowhere as extreme as in the past but it still exsists... and is lame as fuck...

hence the often heard comments that sex workers and strippers aren't wifey material... (not directed at nas)

Strippers aren't wife material, plain and simple.

Well with my values, they aren't. Dunno how you were brought up or what your values are.

and i suppose you believe you can't rape a prostitute???

The fuck kind of rebuttal was that?

Marrying a stripper and raping a prostitute are too completely different things.

plain and simple... you attitude often sits well with people who believe the myth that you can't rape a prostitute...

Lol, it's impossible to argue with you.

You have this idea that all man are pigs and just want sex and shit, and I know why you think that, and what you've been through.

So I'ma just stop this pointless argument.

And to what you've said, you can rape a prostitute, like my mother told me, "a husband could rape his wife", if the women is unwilling it is rape.

So dont try and turn this shit on me.

I can respect your values but your assumptions on strippers as a whole is unfounded.

You don't know them or their situation(s), exotic dancing is a job nonetheless, a job that pays for a roof over her (and possibly her family's head) and puts food on the table.

Last edited by ClosetGay 15 years ago

Hmmmm seems you questioned my upbringing and values...

and sandin... straight up... how do you know what i have been through? I don't hate men... i loves them... i have a beautiful son... it is attitudes that stigmatise people... and malign them... social exclude them... and allow people to see them as some how lesser beings... that i dislike... if it came from a woman it would be all the same to me... same reaction...

i am pleased that you know that if a girl doesn't want it it is wrong... unfortunately... people do see sex workers as being unable to rape... and society's attitude to them... allows these low lives to see them as acceptable victims... of not just rape but murder also...

Sadly i don't see it as a pointless arguement... i don't even see it as an arguement... rather an age old discussion that goes back centries... only due to their place in society... sex workers are often not able to speak out... and when someone speaks up for them... the automatically have there values and background brought into question...

But it is what it is... honestly... i believe that sex workers and strippers and porn stars... would make beautiful wives... as they are beautiful people... who show courage and determination... to survive... i try not to see what people do... rather who they are...

Last edited by hanako 15 years ago

I completely understand that, and I am not judging them for that. If that's the only way they can make a living, let them do it. (Even though I don't ever believe that's the only choice to earning money, but it is the easiest and fastest.)